Who is it for?
Surrogate Partner Therapy (SPT) is for you if you need to work with a partner in order to develop more accurate or nuanced body-awareness, more sexual self-confidence, and/or more capacity for emotional and physical intimacy. In addition, it offers unparalleled opportunities for experiencing, practicing, and integrating new relational, social, sensual, and sexual skills.
Choosing me to be your surrogate partner is appropriate if you are a gay, bi-sexual, or transgendered man who:
struggles with your sexual orientation or gender, desire and/or functioning issues;
is caught in constricting expectations, self-sabotage, or pre-programmed sexual behaviors;
needs to learn and practice emotional congruence;
has trouble experiencing pleasure in touching and being touched;
is dealing with insecurity and/or lack of experience with all things sexual;
struggles with open and effective communication, and needs help building skills for dating;
has trouble performing sexually with another man; erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation;
wants to develop more mature social skills in the context of intimacy;
struggles with long-standing physical or emotional issues with sex;
wants to develop enough sexual self-confidence to move toward future intimate relationships;
is ready to invest in your future happiness.
If you are a woman or a straight man hoping to connect with an appropriate surrogate, contact the referrals coordinator for the International Professional Surrogates Association (IPSA), referrals@surrogatetherapy.org.
